Finding yourself....Who u are, what u were and where u want to be....

This blog is a dedication to all those people, who fail to realize that how important, unique & capable they are....

To start with...

I have always wondered about a thought....who we are...where we want to be and the enigma magnifies...when I think...where I have come from.

As humans, we often create an identity of ourselves in the public around us, by what we wear, what we do everyday, what surrounds us, gadget geekos, news freakos, brand logos

But nevertheless, it cant be denied that, our presence brings an impact on people around us..good or bad is altogether a different subject matter..

The thought process starts maturing in when we start thinking.....what and WHO WE ARE WHEN ALL OF THESE MATERIALISTIC THINGS ARE NOT AROUND US...

When we literally strip off everything around us...and are simply left with an empty space ...

Eventually,  dats when we really get the time to ponder of WHO WE ARE...and make our thinking bells to ring...

Imagining a status quo like this is not an easy job....Cant be denied that it can prove to be an intimidating and menacing task...

I would here like to bring another thought!!

There is a difference between being happy and being eternally happy.

Being happy is a term short lived...few seconds, few mins, few hours....

Eternal Happiness is long lived...

& coming back to where I started, Finding passions around ourselves, undoubtedly brings us closer to answering the question, WHO WE ARE

Executing them....gives answers to the question WHAT WE WANT TO DO AND WHERE WE WISH TO GO.....

In the empty space, when we start to put up our thinking caps, there can be a moments of enormous scare, dat might lead to the heart pumping out...But, when we start realizing that thr's  nothing more real (m not saying that there's nothing more possible) so when we realize that there can be nothing more real than what we are already, or there isn’t anyone who is “more adequate” than just us.... but only people who are different are more adequate, here is where we become conscious of  what our standards are...

There might be a sense of inadequacy creeping in &  that's jus coz we compare ourselves against a std set by someone else. 

Here our thoughts need to conquer the feeling of inadequacy, and when we remove this mirage, there is nothing which can be proven to be better. 

One must realize the importance of giving importance to one's own-self. To find those passions inside, which gives us a life...a sense of direction of where we are and where we want to be. 

The emptiness around us can be filled up with ur own joys which comes in on its own, when we open the closed doors of our dreams. 

Those so called bigger things that we use to define ourselves, are nothing but tools to make us shamble. 

Go through the joys of discovering yourself;

Feel the bliss of knowing what you are!!

Enjoy every moment of deciding what you want to do and ..

Experience the jubilation of execution & triumph...

Take some time to read this article twice when you find some solace....

Think about every line, and you will find instances of your own life relating to this article...

and I just aim....that you make your dreams come true and feel the eternal bliss of achievements which might not be any worth to the world around you but may mean the world to you...

1 Panchi ki udaan....

1 panchi ne bhari sapno ki duniya me apni pehli udaan,

Kuch karne ki chah thi ; chune the use kai makaam,

Udaan bharte hi uske pankh sambhal na paaye usko,

Dagmagayi uski udaan aur toot gaye uske saare armaan,

HAara wo apni koshisho me..socha, nahi bharni dobara udaan,

Gumsum tha wo khamosh tha wo ; jeene ki chah na thi.. har pal bus thi aakh bhar aayi..

Kosa usne apni kismat ko..kar li usne apne aap se ladai;

Bhagna chahta tha wo apni zindagi se bus dil k kone se 1 awaz aayi...




Kya hua agar main haara..kya hua jo naa poori hui meri udaan,

Kya hua agar kismat ne saath nhi diya

Kya hua jo main ud naa saka

Aaye ab chahe koi toofan

Udna to main seekhunga chahe ye hawain naa de mera saath

Mod lunga 1 din hawaao ko main apne saath

Sab kuch hoga 1 din mere haaath

1 din hoga yeh mera aakash

1 din hoga yeh mera aakash




Hai kuch aisa MERA EHSAAAS

Rendezvous with Oneself- ZNMD

well.....i still havent browsed the net for so far what has been written abt ZNMD...bt for sure i knw m not the first one to write abt it......

hindi movies are something which i decide to c when the trailer clicks my mind. ZNMD was one of those. i so very much wanted to bunk my office to c this movie........1. title. 2 hritik 3 farhan 4 songs (obviously i am a work freak like hrithik.......who did not bunk the office)

i saw the movie after a very heavy week waking up ON A SATURDAY FOR A 9 o Clock show in the second week. and yes the movie is so right about the concept we fail to think.......ZINDAGI NAA MILEGI DOBAARA......

though of course the movie shows its own brands of richness........fish 12,000 euros ki BAGWATI...

n a trip like this in an SUV... an easy faluda of ur 2 yrs savings when u r just a bachelor........

bt i wondered......is it worth it???

i came out with an ans ...

a trip with friends...

a trip with friends amidst most beautiful places on earth......

a trip with friends amidst most beautiful places on earth doing craziest of sports....

a trip with friends amidst most beautiful places on earth doing craziest of sports of which u are scared off.............

a trip with friends amidst most beautiful places on earth doing craziest of sports of which u are scared off which helps u get out of those fears.............

a trip with friends amidst most beautiful places on earth doing craziest of sports of which u are scared off which helps u get out of those fears and brings u closer to urself ..........

YES A TRIP LIKE THIS IS WORTH IT.........

the movie was actually not about the trip.......

it was about coming out of ur fears and living the life on the edge.

and facing the biggest fear of all " death" ....

it was abt coming closer to urself and to do what u actually want to do...

it wasnt the movie which touched the heart. it was the concept that is close to all of us but we fail to realize it.

the three most beautiful scenes of the movie-

i hope i would be using the right paraphrases to describe them

1. Eternal Bliss

when the scuba diving is over and the actors are in the steamer.....

the feelings of Arjun. it wasnt a sense of achievement, but it was the feeling of eternal peace. the closeness with nature and ultimately god. the spirituality that evolves in the soul of such a person who always finds a chance to show off his extravagance.

2. Triumph

when Imraan finishes his para gliding and touches his feet on the ground. the silence in the cinematography but the scene continues with the sense of achievement on Imran's face. the joy of success was like "no one at the moment has achieved more that what i have done"

3. Conquer

the last but one scene of the movie, when they all have failed in the race, two of them near the wall, one almost under the bulls and which is where Kabeer's inner self says.....go for it, conquer it and it shows on his face. this is what inspires arjun and imran.

n how could i miss out the most important one

4. Friendship

u know there are some BEEEEEP kinda ppl in this world....Damn who know u more than u do at times....

they are the one's who would take away ur g.f.s/ throw ur phone away/ pour a drink on u/ probably in all sad and happy times of life......(when ur g.f dumps u, when u fail, when u succeed, when u lose, when u r down, when u r happy .....these folks will only say CHAL DAARU PEETE HAI)...

They are actually the one's who would look in ur eyes and say " Tu Khush to Hai Naa"

Probably who would help u in worst fears of urs and help u come out of it for once and for all...

the real motivators who would make u believe that YES U CAN DO IT

hey parents, m not saying u are not the important ones (definitely there is nothing more imp than u in this world...) bt at times we cant share with u what we share with friends.

TO sum it all..........

truely this is what life is about....

finding an inner peace with oneself, knowing what u want to do in life, conquering ur fears and living the life as if ZINDAGI NAA MILEGI DOBAARA......

hmMmm...ZNMD is much more than just a film, to my heart than what i cud pen it down here....

there are some emotions u cant explain...

LET URSELF GO ..........;U THE SICK MANTAL THE BWOYZZ (well includes both galjj and guyjj :) )

Views on experience with my latest trip to Ajanta-Ellora Caves

Disclaimer:

THis post has no resemblance to any single person or any sex in particular. Neither it is against any the rich heritage of India and its present development.

It is purely sharing a thought that wildly crossed my mind.

Lately i went to visit Ajanta and Ellora Caves...

Since i went alone i had a lot of time to think abt the visit while coming back

There were 2 different aspects:

1. How much people can accept single women as tourists?

- People spot very soon that u r alone

- they really cant digest to c that

- a man if travels alone grabs no attention.

Makes me say, that the society that we are growing into is much more hypocrite than we think and we realize this much more with every forthcoming experience.

We say that women are being given freedom to do things alone, but why still a fear dawns upon a woman when she does something new against the conventional thoughts of society that probably hurts the ego of a man somewhere deep within.

2. THe caves were wonderful. The rock-cut caves had paintings on verandahs (made all from natural colors-Vanaspatis), inner walls and ceilings, these revealed some of the most beautiful masterpieces of world art.. I just wondered that without the modern jargons of "PROJECT/ DEADLINES/EQUIPMENTS/ MATERIAL MANAGEMENTS/ SUPPLY CHAIN etc" how without any blueprints were these enormous creations created?

What was the sense of art the people in those times had that we lack now?

What should we be more proud of- The rich heritage we have which never used a tinge of technology but only an extreme sense of vision of art which has now lost coz we fail to recognize the art or

Creations like the Lake Pontchartrain Causeway (38.4 Km long world’s longest overseas bridge) ,the worli sea link(India’s first creation), and things alike which are meant for public use but has costed us a hefty amount.

What are different perceptions? What are the ideologies?

What will we preserve more? What is more important for the nation- A rich heritage or a developed state ?

Please share your views on both the aspects.